The Benefits of Therapy Twice a Week: When Once Just Isn’t Enough
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The Benefits of Therapy Twice a Week: When Once Just Isn’t Enough

Some people go to therapy twice a week because things are falling apart. Others go because they’re finally ready for things to come together.

You probably think of therapy as a once-a-week thing. You show up, talk about your feelings, make a few breakthroughs, and spend the next seven days metabolizing and making sense of it all.

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When to Quit Self-Helping and Start Therapy
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When to Quit Self-Helping and Start Therapy

You’ve been doing the work. You read the books. You’ve journaled about gratitude. You’ve downloaded the meditation apps and listened to the podcasts. You’ve maybe even yelled affirmations at your bathroom mirror.

And still… you feel stuck.

Welcome to the moment many of us hit: when self-help hits its limit. When journaling about your inner child just turns into a list of “stuff I should probably talk to a real therapist about.”

That’s not failure. That’s progress.

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The Myth of the Together Person (and Why Your Lists Aren’t Helping)
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The Myth of the Together Person (and Why Your Lists Aren’t Helping)

You look like you’re doing fine.
You’ve got a system—sort of. You keep things moving, mostly. But behind the scenes?

You stare at your inbox like it’s a haunted house.
Your to-do list isn’t a list. It’s a self-replicating anxiety machine.
You avoid opening mail because one envelope might break you. And when you finally sit down to start? Suddenly it feels urgent to alphabetize your spices like your future depends on placing paprika in its perfect alphabetical spot. 

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Letters of Support: A Trans-Centered Guide to Surgical Consultations
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Letters of Support: A Trans-Centered Guide to Surgical Consultations

Letters of Support: A Trans-Centered Guide to Surgical Consultations

If you’re a trans or non-binary adult in New York preparing for gender affirming surgery, chances are someone has told you: You’ll need a letter. That phrase alone can stir up anxiety, anger, or just a deep sigh. This “mental health letter” can be a hurdle, or worse—like you need someone else’s permission to make decisions about your own body.

This guide is for anyone navigating the mental health letter requirement—what it is, why it exists, and how it can be approached in a way that centers your needs and affirms your experience.

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Top 3 Signs You’re Neurodivergent (and Didn’t Know It) — And How the Right Therapist Can Help
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Top 3 Signs You’re Neurodivergent (and Didn’t Know It) — And How the Right Therapist Can Help

Ever had the thought: “Wait… what if this isn’t just anxiety?” More and more adults- especially women and folks socialized to fit in - are realizing they’ve been masking neurodivergent traits for years.

You don’t have to be “officially diagnosed” to start exploring what might be going on with symptoms of ADHD, autism, or other neurodivergent traits. Sometimes, just naming it helps everything make more sense.

Here are a few signs that might hit close to home:

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Therapy Buzzwords: The Essential Guide for the Emotionally Curious
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Therapy Buzzwords: The Essential Guide for the Emotionally Curious

Therapy Buzzwords: The Essential Guide for the Emotionally Curious

CBT? DBT? EMDR? Is this a therapist directory or the lineup at a music festival?

If your search history includes the phrase “what type of therapy is best for me” and you’ve abandoned more Psych Today tabs than unread newsletters in your inbox, this guide’s for you.

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Why Am I Struggling to Get Things Done? Understanding Executive Functioning and How Coaching Can Help
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Why Am I Struggling to Get Things Done? Understanding Executive Functioning and How Coaching Can Help

Have you ever looked at your to-do list and felt like your brain just short-circuited? You know what needs to get done—but somehow, the day slips away, and the list remains untouched. Maybe it’s missed deadlines, running late (again), or realizing you’ve been so locked in on one task that suddenly it’s three hours later and everything else has fallen by the wayside. Or maybe it’s the opposite: just thinking about your to-do list gives you a pit in your stomach, and you don’t even know where to start. That constant, gnawing feeling of falling behind—no matter how hard you try—is exhausting.

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